There reason I mention it now is that the daughter I was out strolling with that fine day is once again in Malmo, this time for an extended stay. She'd come upon the memorial again and makes a point of going to see it with anyone she strolls with but had forgotten the story behind it. So I went and searched out this post to send her so she'd know the story.
It turns out that nearly three years after that post had long since been forgotten a friend of one of the widows of the crew somehow found it and was kind enough to leave the link to Flygmonumentet vid Anten. I just discovered this today and thought some of you may enjoy it. Be sure to click the "In English" link at the bottom and wander around. More info there than I was able to provide. And mystery.